you know, I’ve had this blog for almost as long as I’ve ben on Tumblr. And I love this website. And this blog applauds stans or fandoms in general. But I know, from personal experience, that some fandoms are really toxic.
And for anyone who feels like they like the artist, the movies, actor or show but feels like their fellow stans are rude and hateful. And most of all, disrespectful towards other opinions…. get the fuck out of that fandom. It is not worth your time and energy.And it’ll bring you down.
I’ve been in a few toxic fandoms myself and there are a few signs that your fandom is toxic. The biggest sign is that your fave or ship (when its a tv fandom) can do no wrong. Refusal of seeing flaws in a person or even a character is not okay. Because people are flawed. And so are characters, seeing as they are built by humans to seem human.
It’s one thing if you’re either as blind as the rest of them or you just don’t go against it, but when you do… well… just don’t. I personally receive anonymous hate on a daily basis on this blog and it’s alright because I’ve gotten used to it. But guess what I can’t stand? When I opinionate myself on a subject matter (that is obviously different) and people send me hate for it. Because then it’s fucking personal.
So people, I’ve said this before but I’ll say it again. GET THE FUCK OUT AND NEVER LOOK BACK
(via ohnoitsthebat)
